Sunday, June 1, 2014

A Really, Really Good Lesson from My Dad on Life Lessons and Hard Work

My dad writes to missionaries every week. Both Kamiko and Daysa are on his mailing list, as are about 12 other full-time missionaries. I get his email, too. I thought this one was especially inspiring. As I read it, I thought of my mission in Bolivia. That experience taught me that I can do anything. I also draw on my experience to allay my fears about Kamiko being on a mission and Allie going to Arkansas. If I can serve and work hard in Bolivia, I can do anything!

Dear Kids, 
I trust you have enjoyed a great week.  It has been good for me.

Life is preparation Don’t miss out on any.
Humor me, I promise it will be worth the read! I was born in 1937 in Holden, Utah, a fourth generation Latter Day Saint. My childhood and teenage years were spent working on a ranch/farm in Southern Utah. For cash crops we raised wheat and cattle. The land was not the most productive so yields were small, but the work was hard and optimism always prevailed. Our lives were centered in the Gospel of Jesus Christ. We understood the parable of the sower.  We understood God adorns His creations beautifully: i.e. the lilies of the fields and beautiful birds and animals for which we were taught reverence.

There was never a shortage of work to be done. Each day cows had to be milked and domestic animals fed and cared for. Alfalfa needed to be cut, windrowed, bailed and hauled for the winter feed for the cattle. Three crops a year were a usual yield. Wheat needed to be harvested. Cattle needed to be moved from winter pasture to summer pasture in the early summer and then in late summer they were moved from summer pasture to winter pasture as we watched the cycle of nature herald changing assignments.

Days started early in the morning, usually around 5:30 and continued in a steady pace until 7:00-8:00 in the evening when we collapsed into bed, dog tired and fell asleep immediately so we would be refreshed for the coming day. This routine was every day, but the Sabbath, year in and year out.

In 1955 I commenced my college education at BYU where I enrolled in a pre-dental program. School was a challenge, but not too difficult I had been seasoned on the farm with long hours and hard work to prepare me. In October 1957 I arrived in Sweden to commence my missionary service. Missionary work was demanding and challenging, learning a new language and expressing spiritual thoughts in Swedish became a challenge and delight. I knew I could succeed. I have been forged in the crucible of long hours of hard work on the farm. My mission was a success as I blessed the lives of many, but most of all my life was blessed and my investment in time and energy would bear fruits for years to come. I loved it. I loved the people. I loved teaching the gospel. I loved the food. I loved to tract. I loved my companions. I loved Sundays in company with the Saints as we worshiped God together, sang the hymns of Zion in Swedish, and partook of the sacrament, renewing sacred covenants.

Upon return home in 1960 I met and married my dear wife, Ann, in the Los Angeles Temple and we have enjoyed a wonderful life of marriage and service. We raised seven children and now have twenty-four wonderful grandchildren and thirteen great-great grandchildren.

I continued my education and completed my dental training in 1965. The study of academics and manual dexterity to master dentistry was a challenge, but I had farmed and I knew how to meet challenges. I practiced dentistry for thirty-one years.  The practice of dentistry was challenging, but much easier and considerably more financially rewarding than farming.

I have been blessed to have served in a variety of capacities in church service. I served as ward YM President two times, Stake YM President two times, Ward Sunday School President, Sunday School teacher, Primary Teacher, Scout Leader, Stake High Council, and Bishop three times.

I retired in 1996 and Sis Hunter and I moved to Utah to enter a new phase of life. We immediately sought to serve in the House of the Lord and were assigned to serve in the Provo Utah Temple. Learning the ordinances was a challenge, but I had been on a farm. I had served a mission in Sweden. I had served in a variety of church assignments and eventually I became comfortable in administering the ordinances of the temple. I felt the richness, the power and the beauty of these sacred ordinances. Sowing seeds, harvesting and putting into barns, the lilies of the field and the animals witnessed to the greatness of God and I enjoyed the abundance thereof.

In 1999 Sis Hunter and I received a call from the Prophet to serve a mission in the Stockholm Temple. I renewed acquaintances and refreshed friendships with many gentle Saints I had known during my 1957-1960 mission. We ended up serving three missions at the Stockholm Temple for a total of about five years.

We have a catalogue of friends among the Saints living in: Sweden, Norway, Denmark, Finland, Iceland, Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia, and Russia. We have visited many of them in their homes and many of them have been hosted in our home. As I serve as a sealer in the Provo Temple it is not uncommon to have common acquaintances from these distant lands with a patron on a sealing session. On a recent sealing Sis Silander-Izatt handed me several family file cards. As I looked at the card I noticed the person who had submitted the card was Jukka Laine from Finland. I asked Sis Silander-Izatt how she knew Bro Laine. She said he was her uncle. Then she asked how I, from Provo, Utah, knew Jukka Laine. I responded he and his wife, Anna-Lissa, had served as ordinance workers in Stockholm when we were there. Such examples are more numerous than one would expect.

April 24, 2014 I had a complete knee replacement for my left knee. I am now in recuperation mode.  Rehabilitation is hard, but I was raised on a farm, doing hard work. Rehabbing a leg is hard, even more painful than any farm laboring.

As we progress in life our character becomes the product of the sum total of our mortal experiences.  I have learned the following are helpful to meet ever changing challenges in life: Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, prayer, confidence in one’s capacity to rise to the challenge whatever it may be, reliance upon those who love you and assist you and you will learn humility and gratitude.

In rehab pain is a constant companion to each exercise as we stretch and lengthen muscles and tendons that constricted during and after surgery. One must move forward, regardless of the pain. There is no easy route, but with the Lord at one’s side anything and everything can and will be conquered. His grace is sufficient for all. His grace fills the entire universe and validates our efforts in whatever arena we engage. Our gratitude for His Atoning sacrifice and grace should be deep and ever ongoing.

I testify of the goodness and all encompassing love of the Savior and His great desire to bring us all back to His presence that we may live and enjoy all the richness of eternal which is the greatest of God’s gifts.


May your week be rich and rewarding. Love Dad

Four Stakes...Righteous Parents, Righteous Friends, Faith in God and Covenants

Today in Sunday School, Sister Clegg taught a lesson based on readings from Judges in the Old Testament. She shared a story by President Hinckley about a tree he had planted early in their married life. He planted a young tree and didn't think to stake it down, allowing it to grow straight, in spite of harsh winds. As a result, it grew leaning with the wind. Had he staked it, it would have grown straight. We are like that. There are four stakes that can help us grow straight.

Righteous Parents: I'm grateful for my parents and what I learned from them. They have always tried their best to raise us with good values and with commitment to our covenants. They are examples of service, work and faith.

Righteous Friends: Wow, I've had a lot of those. My first and forever friends are my sisters and later, my baby brother. They've always been an influence for good. When dad was bishop and everyone at church hated us, we had each other. Later in life came Kim Rose Cassetti. Kim has always been a good friend. She is a genuinely good person with great values and a love of God and family. She is fiercely loyal to that which is right. Then came Maureen Russell, Lin Maute and Sue Hoot in Texas. Great neighbors and friends. Now in Utah, my friends have been Maria Trump, Amy Bowden, Sandy Hewlett, Sherie Ritchie, RaDawn Mehr, Starlyn Hjorth, Annie Christensen, Ali Clarkson and many, many others. Friends definitely make life sweet and help us along the path.

Faith in God: I learned early in our married life that God sees the big picture and knows what's best for us. Things may not always work out the way we think they should, but, if we're patient, they'll work out the way they should. Keenan's career, Kamiko's mission, my job, etc. are examples of this principle.

Covenants: We make promises with the Lord and when we are obedient, He blesses us. He is always there, wanting to help and encourage us. I love that when we make mistakes, the Lord is there to succor us and give us strength to overcome and be better. I'm grateful for covenants we make at baptism and in the temple. The Gospel richly blesses my life.

Memorial Day Weekend

So, we decided on Sunday that we would go to Holden after church to see our ancestor's graves and to leave the ONE blooming iris we had on grandma and grandpa Hunter's grave. We ate a quick meal after church and headed out. We had a great time. I'm glad all four of us went. It warmed my heart to be in Holden. I spent many days there as a kid, visiting grandma and grandpa and walking down the street to Wood's Market. It was the only thing to do in town, besides play with the selection of games that grandma had in the house. I remember specifically the Cootie Game.

Memorial Day weekend was also a time to remember my Grandpa Sears and the time he served in the Navy in WWII. He never saw battle, as he served in San Francisco. He had some post with the mail. Mom and her siblings commented that grandpa was always proud of his service during the war.

William Edgar Sears in his Navy uniform

Our ONE iris. We also brought shell leis. Allie and Otto Hunter grave



Nicholas and Sidney Teeples grave. Nicholas was a handcart survivor and Sidney was a rescuer.

Dear Old AF High

And....drum roll, please...Allie graduated from High School WITH HONORS. Graduation was on Friday, May 31, at 7:30 pm in the Marriott Center on BYU campus. It was a really good graduation. The speakers nailed it. They gave short talks on the theme "In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure." (Bill Cosby). I even wrote down a quote that the President of the Alpine Board of Education shared. It's from the first blind person to summit Mt Everest. It says: "I think what's inside of us is stronger than what's in our way."

So, we ate dinner around 4:30. Allie had requested chicken enchiladas. Kobi Watkins and Makei Tupou joined us. Then we drove to Grandma and Grandpa Hunter's house to take pics. Because of dad's recent knee replacement surgery, they couldn't come to graduation. We then headed to BYU campus to get Allie there 1 hour early. She found a lot of friends and we got some pictures. Then we waited for it to all start. It was only a little over an hour and a half long. Perfect. Then we stopped at McDonald's for drinks. Everyone was thirsty. We got home around 10:45 and Allie left at 11:15 for her all night grad party at Boondocks. She said she had a lot of fun.

It was a great day to recognize her accomplishments. Not only did she graduate, but she contributed to the school by working on yearbook staff (2 years as an editor), working on HOPE Squad, and just being a fun kid. I'm happy for her and proud of her. Way to go, Al! Big things await in Arkansas. Woo Pig Sooie!
Melia, Allie and Kobi (my three girls) being silly before dinner

Our awesome centerpiece from the dollar store


Makei, Allie, Melia and Kobi...ready for food and graduation ceremony

These cute girls of mine! I'm so glad they have each other and even more glad that they love each other.








I love these 4 kids!




Aarl and Ann Hunter, Allie, Melia, me and Keenan


grandpa was being silly getting ready for pictures. He wouldn't cooperate and stand where grandma wanted him to stand.


















Allie and her friend Jake Miller







Allie and Rilee Crump, friends since kindergarten at Cedar Ridge Elementary. Their teacher was Mrs. Richey.




Esther Chang, Kelton Burns and Allie

Alyssa Simpson and Kaden Porter...more friends from elementary school days


Alyssa, Allie, Kiana Wong and Kaden




Chandler Winter and Allie after graduation

gangstas coming up steps after graduation. I love these kiddos. They'll be graduating together in 2 years.



Before graduation, the last week of school was full of fun activities. Cavestock, an outdoor event where students showcase musical talent, was one. Allie also got to go to Lagoon Amusement Park in Layton with the other seniors.
Allie and Mel in their Cavestock shirts. They said it was really fun!